Choosing your first Hermès Birkin is an exhilarating experience—equal parts thrilling and nerve-wracking. There’s the excitement of finally acquiring one, but also the endless internal debate: What size? What leather? What color? Do you go for a timeless, versatile neutral or a bold, fun statement piece? And let’s not forget hardware choices, because gold and palladium completely change the bag’s aesthetic.
If you’re struggling with this decision, you’re not alone. I didn’t have this problem with my first Birkin—I always knew I wanted a Birkin 25 in Gold with gold hardware in Togo leather. It was my dream combination, so when the opportunity came, I said yes without hesitation. But now that I’m thinking about my second Birkin… let’s just say the struggle is very real.
So, if you’re choosing your first Birkin, let’s break down the most important factors to help you decide.
The Color Dilemma: Classic vs. Statement
This is where most people get stuck. The Birkin is an investment, both financially and stylistically, so you want a color that won’t just sit pretty on a shelf but actually works with your wardrobe and lifestyle.
Classic Neutrals: Timeless, Versatile, and Foolproof
If you want a Birkin that seamlessly integrates into your wardrobe and is effortlessly chic, a neutral shade is the way to go. These colors are always in high demand because they are easy to style and have long-term staying power.
- Gold – The holy grail of neutrals. Warm, rich, and wearable all year round.
- Etoupe – Cool-toned taupe with contrast white stitching, perfect for an understated yet sophisticated look.
- Noir (Black) – A power move. There’s something undeniably iconic about a black Birkin.
- Gris Tourterelle – Soft dove grey, elegant and dreamy.
- Nata / Craie – The ultimate off-white shades for those who love a fresh, clean aesthetic.
If you want something effortlessly stylish and guaranteed to work with anything, a neutral is a safe bet. But if your wardrobe is already full of neutrals, maybe it’s time for a splash of color.
Fun & Vibrant: The Statement Piece
If you love color or already have a strong neutral handbag lineup, why not go bold? Hermès does color like no other brand, and a fun shade can be a conversation starter and a true collector’s piece.
- Rouge H / Rouge Casaque – The perfect red for a touch of drama and sophistication.
- Vert Criquet – A fresh, slightly muted green that feels modern and luxurious.
- Bleu France / Bleu Saphir – Vibrant blues that stand out while still feeling wearable.
- Jaune Poussin – A soft yet playful yellow, perfect for spring and summer.
- Rose Sakura / Rose Mexico – If you love pink, Hermès offers dreamy pastel and bold options.
If you’re someone who enjoys adding a pop of color to your outfits, a vibrant Birkin can be incredibly fun to own. Just be sure it’s a shade you’ll still love five or ten years from now.
What Size Should You Get?
Size matters, and with Birkins, the most popular choices are Birkin 25, 30, and 35.
- Birkin 25 – The darling of the moment. Super chic, elegant, and easy to carry. Perfect for dressier occasions and those who prefer smaller bags.
- Birkin 30 – The ideal in-between. Not too big, not too small, just effortlessly practical.
- Birkin 35 – The ultimate classic, especially for those who love a more relaxed, slouchy look or need extra space.
Since I already own a Birkin 25, I’m debating whether I should stick with it for my second Birkin or go for a 30 for a little more functionality. If you love a smaller, more refined look, the 25 is perfect. But if you want something more everyday-friendly, the 30 might be your best bet.
Leather: Togo, Epsom, or Something More Luxe?
Leather choice is everything—it affects how your Birkin looks, feels, and wears over time. It’s not just about aesthetics; it’s also about your lifestyle and how you plan to use the bag.
Here’s a quick breakdown of the most popular options:
- Togo – Soft, slightly textured, and holds its shape beautifully while still offering a bit of slouch. It’s durable, forgiving, and a favorite for first-time Birkin buyers (mine included!).
- Epsom – Structured and sleek with a fine grain. It’s lighter than Togo and more scratch-resistant, but has a stiffer, more formal appearance.
- Clemence – Think of it as Togo’s softer cousin. Even slouchier and more relaxed, perfect for a laid-back look but can lose its shape faster.
- Swift – Smooth, buttery, and utterly chic. It takes color like a dream, but it’s more prone to scratches, so it’s better suited for careful wearers.
- Chevre (Goatskin) – Lightweight, vibrant, and ultra-durable with a natural sheen. It’s often used in smaller bags and special orders because of how beautifully it holds color and shape. A low-maintenance luxury that ages gracefully.
- Exotics (Ostrich, Crocodile, Lizard) – If you’re feeling fancy. These are stunning, rare, and make a serious statement—but they’re high-maintenance and come with a high price tag.
For a first Birkin, Togo is a safe and stylish bet. If you prefer a polished, structured look, Epsom is worth considering. Love vibrant color payoff and a lightweight feel? Chevre might be your secret weapon. And if you’re ready to dive into full-on luxury, Swift or an exotic could be your dream come true—just be prepared to baby it a bit.
Hardware: Gold or Palladium?
Hardware might seem like a minor detail, but it can completely change the vibe of your bag.
- Gold Hardware (GHW) – Warm, elegant, and pairs beautifully with neutral and warm-toned colors.
- Palladium Hardware (PHW) – Cool, modern, and slightly more casual.
- Permabrass / Rose Gold – A middle ground between gold and silver, adding a subtle uniqueness.
- Brushed Hardware / So Black – Special finishes that create an edgier, more distinctive look.
Since my first Birkin was gold on gold, I’m debating whether my second should be palladium hardware for a different vibe. If you’re unsure, think about your jewelry—do you wear more gold or silver? That might help you decide.
Final Thoughts: What’s the Best First Birkin?
If you want something timeless and worry-free, a neutral in Togo leather with either gold or palladium hardware is the safest bet. A Birkin 25 or 30 in Gold, Etoupe, or Noir would be my top recommendations for first-time buyers.
But if your heart is telling you to go for a fun pop of color—listen to it. A Birkin is an emotional purchase as much as it is a practical one. The best Birkin is the one that makes your heart skip a beat every time you see it.
Now… What About My Second Birkin?
Since I already have my dream Gold B25 GHW, I’m at a crossroads. Should I go bigger with a Birkin 30? Stick to neutrals or go bold? Try palladium hardware for contrast? The decision feels way harder this time around.
What would you choose for your second Birkin? Let’s discuss!
